You may be thinking that this is a trick question and perhaps you are right. For some time now, I have been using the family system as a micro version of what happens in larger organizational systems. So what better way than to look at the parental role as leader and how it plays out in gender differences?*
I begin with the story of my two parents. The year is 1944, Bletchley Park, England. My mother at 25 was less than half the age I am now. She was a Flight Sergeant in the Women's Aux...