You have to have a strong ego to write blog posts that are well read by others (who have their own opinions) and then read all the comments.  Two days ago, I took exception to the term “uncoachable” that Marshall Goldsmith used in a recent in his “Ask the Coach” segment in HRB: “How to Spot the “Uncoachables“.  To his credit, Marshall responded and qualified the terms he was using. I encourage you to read the post and the comments (including mine and his responses).

Earlier today, I put up a video of Jacqueline Novogratz where she discusses the importance of learning humility.  I thought it would be interesting to tie the behaviors of self assurance and humility into the Tilt Leadership Model.*  The Tilt 360 looks takes one’s personality to the next step . . . as we are aware of our tendencies how do we manage them. As mature individuals how balanced are we in the character traits needed to be a Transcendent Leader?  An overuse of the strength of confidence (ego) can result in arrogance or being smug. What is needed to balance this is a focus on trust: humble, authentic, respectful.

I have noticed over the past few years a new sense of awareness with the “old timers” of organization development like Peter Block and W. Warner Burke. This is from hearing them speak and interact with them in person.  Marshall Goldsmith falls into this group.  He won’t remember, but I last saw him at the ICF Conference in Brussels in 2006 and I felt the shift.   I am going to go out on a limb here and say that is seems that these “old white men of privilege” finally “get it” and understand at a more fundamental level the position of power they have had over the years.  This shows up in greater humanity and an even greater sense of the whole. They are able to take their creativity and influence to a new level by balancing this ego with greater perspective and humanity.

You might well ask who am I to make such sweeping generalizations. Nobody, but I have had my own humbling experience over the past few years and I must say I have not handled it as graciously as Marshall.

Kudos to him!

Roberta

* Roberta Hill is a fellow with Tilt Inc and primary trainer and supplier in Europe.

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